DigiFreq's unofficial mascot and my best friend and companion, Figaro (my pet cat) passed away on July 30th. Those of you who have read my books have seen Figaro mentioned in the dedications and acknowledgments. He and I had been together since I was 18 and in my senior year in high school. That was almost 18 and 1/2 years ago.
I know there were times when we didn’t get along, but most of the times were good times. I still remember when he was a kitten and we used to play fight together. I would pick him up and gently toss him into the air so he would land on my bed. Then he would come jumping down and tearing across the floor right back to me. I also remember when he was older how he would act more like a dog than a cat. If I (or someone else in my family) was outside doing something in the yard, he would always follow us around. Of course, there were plenty of times when he wanted to go off and do his own thing, but he mostly enjoyed spending time with people.
I’m going to miss him so much, I can’t even express it in words. Towards the end he was having health problems, so I’m glad that he’s at peace. And I know that he and my grandfather are together in the next life and will be watching over me until it’s my time to join them. Thank you Figaro for the experience of having you as a friend and for teaching me so much about love, caring, and how to live life. I will love you forever!
I'll be dedicating the next issue of DigiFreq as well as my next Sonar book to Figaro.
Thank you all for your caring and support!
Scott
PS. In the meantime, life goes on and so does work (unfortunately), so I've taken the time to post some new announcements from Alienware, American Power Conversion, Belkin Corporation, Carly Simon, DTS Entertainment, and AudioWarrior in News.
Hope you feel better about your cat Scott. I can't imagine losing one of my cats, they are my kids basically. My female sits right next to me anytime I play guitar like she likes it or something. I have gotten used to her always being there. Anyways hope you feel better.
Our pets share our homes. In time they become family members. All are missed once they leave us but I've always felt they enriched our lives with their presence.
Love is love, and loss is loss. I don't think there are degrees. The loss of a true friend stays with us forever, but the pain fades. Scott, you have my deep condolences.
Thanks Steven, Joe, Larry, Jim, Gary, and Firefox! I really appreciate your kind and comforting words. I also appreciate your support during my time of grief.
I'm missing Figaro a lot lately. I think it's because we spent so much time together. Even though he slept a lot (like all cats do during the day), just having him here was comforting. And of course with me working at home, he was always here. I know things will get easier with time, but it's difficult to keep working some days.
I know the pain....I recently lost my 17-year-old dog Frisky, and some days it's hard to function. It doesn't get easier, but you get better.
We waited a while, but I've found that the best way to grieve and honor your pet is to continue to give your love to other pets. My little 'Annie' is such a great healer.
Scott, you have my most heartfelt condolences. It's really difficult to lose such an irreplaceable friend. Cats have a tendency to re-visit and I'm sure you'll feel his presence for quite some time. I hope the good time memories are bright and vivid and comforting for you.
Thanks so much for your wonderful words of support! It definitely helps to know that there are other people out there who feel the same way I do about the pets in our lives.
I've thought about getting another cat, but it probably won't be any time soon. I know there are a lot of orphaned animals out there that need a good home, but I'm not ready yet.
In the meantime, I'll be keeping my eyes and ears open, just in case Figaro decides to pay me a visit. :-) I do actually believe that spirits can visit us here, but I don't know if it's ever happened to me before.
> I do actually believe that spirits can visit us here, but I don't know if it's ever happened to me before.<
It has happened to me and some of my family . And it IS real . I hope it happens with you . We never had any animals though . You will get to see him again soon enough .
Scott,
Sorry to hear of you loss. I know pets are part of the family. We have a few and our older dog is pretty close to leaving too.
I haven't heard how you are doing. I know you were feeling badly there a while back. I hope all is well with you too, in that respect.
deny
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DigiFreq's unofficial mascot and my best friend and companion, Figaro (my pet cat) passed away on July 30th. Those of you who have read my books have seen Figaro mentioned in the dedications and acknowledgments. He and I had been together since I was 18 and in my senior year in high school. That was almost 18 and 1/2 years ago.
